tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post8783146400250998702..comments2023-08-11T07:22:13.917-04:00Comments on Navy Wife, Navy Life. Watch me sink or swim.: Crappy people & youKKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08989143550400335223noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-53956760052101529252011-01-06T15:42:10.022-05:002011-01-06T15:42:10.022-05:00"Excuse me, but are you having a bad day or s..."Excuse me, but are you having a bad day or something? You're being incredibly rude to me. I'm not a doormat and I will be speaking to the volunteer supervisor about this." lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-80017763535442244912011-01-06T15:39:59.958-05:002011-01-06T15:39:59.958-05:00The weird part is that I'm soooo not a door ma...The weird part is that I'm soooo not a door mat. I stand up for myself in everything...EXCEPT this for some reason. J says it's because it's my first job like thing and I'm still a little insecure about the "professional world". I don't even know what I would have said to her "Please don't be so mean to me"? "No thanks, I'll pass"? When it really comes down to it, I have no idea what I could have said beside "*F* You, I'm gone".KKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08989143550400335223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-3799697227751354382011-01-06T15:18:30.292-05:002011-01-06T15:18:30.292-05:00I agree with Amanda. Report her ass. She has no ri...I agree with Amanda. Report her ass. She has no right to treat anyone like that, paid OR volunteer. It's abuse either way. <br /><br />Sorry that this upset you. It's not petty, she's just down right being a bitch.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-34149783780891319212011-01-06T07:27:59.622-05:002011-01-06T07:27:59.622-05:00do you volunteer at Mysitc aquarium?? I used to lo...do you volunteer at Mysitc aquarium?? I used to love it there.<br /><br />Anyways, you are a stronger woman than me, that lady would have gotten a bucket upside her head! She has absolutely no right or reason to treat you like that. She should really be reported to someone about her mistreatment of volunteers.Amanda C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05503311148524728681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-57170480466599832492011-01-05T21:58:45.334-05:002011-01-05T21:58:45.334-05:00I love you all. Thank you. I felt so silly writing...I love you all. Thank you. I felt so silly writing this.<br /><br />Jenny- The trainer isn't really the same each week. I've worked with 4 trainers total and this was the 2nd time with this one. What I'm going to tell the coordinator is that if it ever happens again I will walk out. I don't care if I said I would stay for at least a 6 month commitment, I won't deal with it again. I bit my tongue for the first time in EVER....lol. I never let people talk to me like that and I think J was shocked that I did. I just didn't know what to say. I feel I'm still too new to really know how to stick up for myself.KKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08989143550400335223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-50239916503982911012011-01-05T21:53:31.691-05:002011-01-05T21:53:31.691-05:00Man you kept your cool I would have went off on he...Man you kept your cool I would have went off on her lol. Bad day or not you don't treat people like dirt that is not right at all.<br /><br />I would talk with the coordinator and tell her about how the trainer treats you. Maybe you can get moved to a different day with a different trainer?Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11784061130192805031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-73033004771276928822011-01-05T21:26:21.616-05:002011-01-05T21:26:21.616-05:00You have every right to be mad!! I have a really r...You have every right to be mad!! I have a really rude supervisor at work and her little comments often get to me as well. Some people like to put others down in order to make themselves feel better, just try not to let her ruin something you enjoy doing. I would talk to the volunteer coordinator and tell her how unprofessional and rude you were treated by that lady. If they want to keep their volunteers they need to stop abusing them. Good luck!Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03826972932495686229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-63945959894138843592011-01-05T21:21:09.754-05:002011-01-05T21:21:09.754-05:00I agree with J... It should make you HAPPY! I sure...I agree with J... It should make you HAPPY! I sure as heck would NOT take that from ANYONE! It shouldn't matter if your a volunteer or not..Mrs. Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15958947739062421111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-77265485744894906362011-01-05T21:09:08.767-05:002011-01-05T21:09:08.767-05:00Thank you. I feel bad complaining but I'm so s...Thank you. I feel bad complaining but I'm so sooo angry about it all. lol.<br /><br />I just cried to my husband and he told me volunteering should make me happy not cause me more stress, thats what a JOB is for.KKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08989143550400335223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5026653092791056364.post-19824116443298997512011-01-05T21:00:40.324-05:002011-01-05T21:00:40.324-05:00I would absolutely be ticked off if I were you. Th...I would absolutely be ticked off if I were you. That is just amazing that that woman thinks she can treat you like that. It wouldn't matter if you were paid staff or not; nobody deserves to be treated like that. The fact that you so generously donate your time just makes the whole thing worse. I think you really should talk to the coordinator because other volunteers may not put up with as much as you did today; they could lose good people. Not to mention the fact that you won't (shouldn't) put up with it much longer. That woman needs to be put in her place. <br /><br />Just my opinion.Just Another MilSpousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01479557615827258234noreply@blogger.com